The first thing you have to understand is that in life, in this world, you are a co-creator of your life. What that means is that, God has given you the free-will to create any type of life you want, and you are responsible for all your actions. So, whatever place you are right now- whether good or bad, you created it. And how, you may ask, do we create our life? The answer is in the Bible, Proverbs 23:7- "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. To rephrase that; "you become what you think about". Whatever thought you hold in your mind for a period of time, inspires you to action, and creates a life based on those thoughts. It is a simple as that.
Please, read the above paragraph again, and let it sink in before you go on reading. You need to understand, and accept it if you want to change your life for the better...if you want to create a better future. I am sure you are saying- "it can't be that simple." It is, and I guess that is why it is so hard to accept. People like to blame a family member; a past life; a drunkard father; their high school teacher; the devil; they blame everybody but themselves. If you can get the belief that you create your life sunken into your mind, you would open the gates to endless possibilities in your life.
The next stop is how you are going to use visualization in creating a better future. Visualization has to do with using your imagination (which everybody has) to create a mental movie of the kind of life you want in the near future. Note that the future here can stand for tomorrow morning. I once used visualization to create the kind of girl I wanted in my life, and the next day after I practiced the procedure, I actually met the girl in person. The funny part was that I was so dumbfounded that I had the power to create my own future that I couldn't engage in a conversation with her. But because my visualization was so strong the night before, the girl came into my life again the next day, and this time, she didn't wait for me to make the first move. It was like magic!
So, the procedure of visualization has to do with holding a thought of what you want in your life; whether in your finances, in your relationship or the kind of job you want. Just itemize everything you want starting from this moment (there is power in writing down goals), and from here own, start picking, one by one, the experiences you want to see in your life. Hold the thoughts of that which you want, and start playing with the images. Be creative, and make a mental movie of yourself already in possession of that thing, or living that life, and play it in your head over and over again, till it feels real, and it materializes in your life.
A Little Secret
I would like to share a little secret with you that would further enhance your belief that you can actually create your future. An experiment was performed where a man's brain was hooked up to "brain activity reading" device, and he was asked to look at an object. When he looked at the object, a part of his brain was fired up on the device monitor. The object was then removed from view, and he was asked to just visualize the bottle in his head; the same portion of the brain that lit up when he was physically looking at the object lit up again. Your brain does not know the difference between what you see and what you imagine.
